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GOOD MANNERS-FOSTERING "POLITE" BEHAVIOR
While you're going through the jobs of socializing and housebreaking your puppy, you need to be working on teaching him "socially acceptable" behaviors. Your puppy has no idea which behaviors are considered acceptable (by YOU) and which are not. 
You Don't Have a BAD Puppy (you have a NORMAL puppy)
Face it, most NORMAL dog behaviors have some degree of unacceptability amongst humans. After all, they greet strangers by sniffing butts. Upon greeting a family member, they are compelled to lick the other's face. They know that the freshest, most cool water is in the toilet bowl. They insist on repeating behaviors that we humans REWARD with our attention-and the things that get the MOST attention are: Keep-away with the Rolex watch (Gucci shoes, computer disks and other personal valuables also work really well). The whole world is just "chew toys" to them, and they have no way of knowing which things were put on earth for little dogs, and which things are irreplaceable family heirlooms. 
If you expect your puppy to somehow develop behaviors which are acceptable to HUMANS, then you must teach the puppy that performing these behaviors is where his advantage lies. An untrained dog is an opportunist. He will do things that reward him and avoid things that don't. Puppies can't reason and don't know that a behavior is good or bad. All the puppy can figure out is that certain behaviors are followed by pleasurable consequences and certain behaviors are followed by unpleasant consequences. It is YOUR job to make sure that none of the "bad" behaviors (ones unacceptable to YOU) get rewarded. For instance, if "counter surfing" or garbage raiding is successful in gaining the dog a yummy treat, he's going to try to repeat that behavior as often as possible. If sitting politely on the floor gets ignored by you, but jumping up gets you all excited and allows the dog to be close enough to lick your face, he's going to choose jumping up over sitting politely every time, because that's what you've selectively rewarded. Maybe not intentionally, but that doesn't matter-he's learned it just the same.
Remember that for every obnoxious behavior your dog can produce, you can think of an acceptable behavior to replace it with. You just have to stop rewarding the unwanted behavior and reward a more pleasing behavior in its place. Reward sitting with petting. Ignore jumping up. Reward staying away from the dinner table with treats (away from the table). Ignore begging. Don't let the pup "pull" you into a game of "keep-away" with something he shouldn't have. Steel yourself, and ignore him. Go pick up one of HIS toys, and act like it is the most special toy in the world. Toss it in the air and talk to it. Catch it and chase it. When he drops grandma's false teeth, engage him in a fun game with his own toy (unless, of course, you want him to prefer grandma's false teeth, because of all the attention it gets him).
It's sad to report that behavior problems are listed as the reason for the surrender of 80% of the dogs that are dumped at the pounds and shelters. Dogs are sent off to the shelter when the owners can't cope with normal dog behaviors, which they could have redirected with very little effort. Dogs are killed by the millions each year, guilty of committing various heinous crimes, which are within the range of normal dog behavior. The owner states "jumps on children," "chases the cat," "chews the furniture," or "runs away" as the reason for discarding the family dog like last week's meatloaf. 
The tragedy is that people think that puppies can raise themselves to be model citizens (by human standards). Fat chance. People don't want to put in the time to prevent unacceptable behaviors and foster good behaviors. They often wait until the bad behaviors have a nice reward history, and they are as hard to remove as rust stains on a white t-shirt. In 25 years as a dog behavior counselor, I got thousands of questions about how to "stop" the dog from doing this or that obnoxious behavior. I never once got a question from anyone asking me how to prevent themselves from teaching the dog the obnoxious behaviors in the first place. It seems no one is into prevention, but everyone wants a cure, or a quick fix. What's worse, they never like the answer. They're expecting me to tell them something like, "Get a tazer gun, and when he jumps up, zap a few thousand volts of electricity into his cranium..." Everyone is focusing on punishing the dog to rid themselves of the behavior. My answer is always simply to find the dog NOT exhibiting the behavior, and reward the self control resulting in the absence of the behavior. 
So, now that you know all of this, and you want to keep your adorable puppy in your family his whole life long, you have vowed that you will not be in the shelter 6 months from now, trying to rid yourself of an out-of-control adolescent dog, right? You're ready to WORK at creating a GOOD DOG, right? Ok. Here are some simple steps you can take. You can teach your dog these things starting at 7 weeks of age. You don't have to wait to get into an obedience training class to do them. It's a simple list of do's and don'ts. If you catch yourself doing any of the things in the "DON'T" column, get that rolled up newspaper and swat yourself with it until you come to your senses.

Positive Reinforcement
A reward can be a treat, a game, a toy, attention, petting, eye contact, or access to something the puppy wants (like to go through a door, or to continue a walk).  Even yelling can be a reward to a dog who never gets any kind of attention. Be careful what you reward
A punishment is withholding a reward. You never have to get more nasty than that. The most powerful punisher is to ignore the dog. This means no reaction at all, not even eye contact, which could be perceived by the dog as successfully getting your attention.

Reward the Good + Ignore the Bad = Success (a simple formula to produce a good puppy)

 

DO

DON'T

  • reward sitting quietly (sit for attention) 

  • encourage play with dogs own toys

  • reward the dog for being quiet ("good quiet")

  • feed the dog when he sits politely

  • reward the dog each time he comes to you

  • exercise him to prevent boredom

  • let him earn his treats as rewards

  • reward him for waiting at doorways

  • reward eye contact every time you get it

  • reward loose-leash walking with forward motion

  • DON'T stroke the dog if he jumps up (turn away)

  • DON'T chase the dog to get back your belongings

  • DON'T yell at the dog for barking (attention = reward)

  • DON'T put the bowl down while he's jumping around

  • DON'T scold if he runs off, then comes back (never scold when he comes to you)

  • DON'T punish for habits developed due to boredom

  • DON'T give him anything he wants because he's cute

  • DON'T let him barge through (slam the door shut)

  • DON'T let him reward himself for bad behaviors

  • DON'T move at all if he pulls the leash tight

 
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