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Separation
Anxiety
Dogs with separation anxiety
exhibit behavior problems when they re left alone. Typically, they'll have a
dramatic anxiety response within a short time
(20-45 minutes) after their owners leave them. The most common of these
behaviors are:
- Digging, chewing and
scratching at doors or windows in an attempt to escape and reunite with their
owners.
- Howling, barking and
crying in an attempt to get their owner to return.
- Urination and defecation
(even with housetrained dogs) as a result of distress.
Why Do Dogs Suffer From
Separation Anxiety?
We don't fully understand
exactly why some dogs suffer from separation anxiety and, under similar
circumstances, others don't. It's important to
realize, however, that the destruction and house soiling that often occur with
separation anxiety are not the dog's attempt to
punish or seek revenge on his owner for leaving him alone, but are actually
part of a panic response.
Separation anxiety
sometimes occurs when:
- A dog has never or rarely
been left alone.
- Following a long interval,
such as a vacation, during which the owner and* dog are constantly together.
- After a traumatic event
(from the dog's point of view) such as a period of time spent at a shelter or
boarding kennel.
- After a change in the
family s routine or structure (a child leaving for college, a change in work
schedule, a move to a new home, a new pet or person
in the home).
How Do I Know If My Dog Has
Separation Anxiety?
Because there are many reasons
for the behaviors associated with separation anxiety, it s essential to
correctly diagnose the reason for the behavior
before proceeding with treatment. If most, or all, of the following statements
are true about your dog, he may have a
separation anxiety problem:
- The behavior occurs
exclusively or primarily when he's left alone.
- The behavior always occurs
when he's left alone, whether for a short or long
period of time.
- He follows you from room
to room whenever you're home.
- He reacts with excitement,
depression or anxiety to your preparations to leave the house.
- He displays effusive,
frantic greeting behaviors.
- He dislikes spending time outdoors by himself.
What To Do If Your Dog Has
Separation Anxiety
For a minor separation anxiety
problem, the following techniques may be helpful by themselves. For more severe
problems, these techniques should be
used along with the desensitization process described in the next section.
- Keep arrivals and
departures low-key. For example, when you arrive home, ignore your dog for the
first few minutes, then calmly pet him.
- Leave your dog with an
article of clothing that smells like you, an old tee shirt that you ve slept in
recently, for example.
- Establish a safety
cue --a word or action that you use every time you leave that tells your dog
you ll be back. Dogs usually learn to associate
certain cues with short absences by their owners.
For example, when you take out the garbage, your dog knows you come
right back and doesn't become anxious. Therefore, it s helpful to associate a safety
cue with your practice departures and short-duration absences.
Some examples of safety
cues are:
- a
playing radio; a playing television; a bone; or a toy (one that doesn't have dangerous fillings and can t
be torn into pieces). Use your safety cue during practice sessions, but don t
present your dog with the safety cue when
you leave for a period of time longer than he can tolerate or the value of the
safety cue will be lost. Leaving a radio on to provide company for your dog isn t particularly useful by
itself, but a playing radio may work if you ve used it
consistently as a safety cue in your practice sessions. If your dog engages in destructive chewing as part of his separation distress,
offering him a chewing item as a safety cue is a good idea. Very hard rubber
toys that can be stuffed with treats and Nylabone-like products are good choices.
Desensitization Techniques
For More Severe Cases Of Separation Anxiety
- The primary treatment for more
severe cases of separation anxiety is a systematic process of getting your dog
used to being alone.
You must teach your
dog to remain calm during practice departures and short absences.
We
recommend the following procedure:
- Begin by engaging in your
normal departure activities (getting your keys, putting on your coat), then sit
back down. Repeat this step until your
dog shows no distress in response to your activities.
- Next, engage in your
normal departure activities and go to the door and open it, then sit back down.
- Next, step outside the
door, leaving the door open, then return.
- Finally, step outside,
close the door, then immediately return. Slowly get your dog accustomed to
being alone with the door closed between you for
several seconds.
- Proceed very gradually
from step to step, repeating each step until your dog shows no signs of
distress (the number of repetitions will vary
depending on the severity of the problem). If at any time in this process your
actions produce an anxiety response in your dog,
you've proceeded too fast. Return to an earlier step in the process and
practice this step until the dog shows no
distress response, then proceed to the next step.
- When your dog is
tolerating your being on the other side of the door for several seconds, begin
short-duration absences. This step involves giving the
dog a verbal cue (for example, "I'll be back.'), leaving and then
returning within a minute. Your return must be
low-key: either
ignore your dog or greet him quietly and calmly. If he shows no signs of
distress, repeat the exercise. If he
appears anxious, wait until he relaxes to repeat the exercise. Gradually
increase the length of time you re gone.
- Practice as many absences
as possible that last less than ten minutes. You can do many departures within
one session if your dog relaxes
sufficiently between departures. You should also scatter practice departures
and short-duration absences throughout the day.
- Once your dog can handle
short absences (30 to 90 minutes), he ll usually be able to handle longer
intervals alone and you won t have to work up to
all-day absences minute by minute. The hard part is at the beginning, but the
job gets easier as you go along.
Nevertheless, you must go slowly at first. How long it takes to condition your
dog to being alone depends on the severity of his
problem.
Teaching The Sit-Stay And
Down-Stay
- Practice sit-stay or down-stay
exercises using positive reinforcement. Never punish your dog during these
training sessions.
- Gradually increase the
distance you move away from your dog. Your goal is to be able to move briefly
out of your dog's sight while he remains in the
stay position. The point is to teach him that he can remain calmly and
happily in one place while you go to another. As
you progress, you can do this during the course of your normal daily
activities. For example, if you re watching television
with your dog by your side and you get up for a snack, tell him to stay, and
leave the room. When you come back, give him a
treat or quietly praise him.
Interim Solutions
Because the above-described
treatments can take a while, and because a dog with separation anxiety can do
serious damage to himself and/or your
home in the interim, some of the following suggestions may be helpful in
dealing with the problems in the short term:
- Consult your veterinarian
about the possibility of drug therapy. A good anti-anxiety drug should not
sedate your dog, but simply reduce his anxiety while you re gone. Such
medication is a temporary measure and should be used in conjunction with
behavior modification techniques.
- Take your dog to a dog day
care facility or boarding kennel.
- Leave your dog with a
friend, family member or neighbor.
- Take your dog to work with
you, even for half a day, if possible.
What Won't Help A
Separation Anxiety Problem
- Punishment is not an
effective way to treat separation anxiety. In fact, if you punish your dog
after you return home it may actually increase his
separation anxiety.
- Getting another pet. This
usually doesn't help an anxious dog as his anxiety is the result of his
separation from you, his person, not merely the result
of being alone.
- Crating your dog. Your dog
will still engage in anxiety responses in the crate. He may urinate, defecate,
howl or even injure himself in an attempt
to escape from the crate.
- Leave the radio on (unless
the radio is used as a safety cue - see above).
- Obedience school. While
obedience training is always a good idea, it won t directly help a separation
anxiety problem.
Separation anxiety
is not the result of disobedience or lack of training, it s a
panic response.
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